So don’t be sad and don’t be blue for I’m not that bad as what you think I am. I don’t have a heart of stone and it's not my style or forte to put people in shame. And I only have one message for you, if and only if I’m in your shoes right now, what I will do is apologize to the one I hurt most or to the family I ruin. Given the situation that you or I did not know that the guy whom I love is a married man, I'll try my very best to contact his family and apologize and lower than my pride. Well, that's what I'll gonna do if I'm in your shoes, but then we we're brought up in a different way so I dunno about you (other woman). Maybe you're happy ruining other people's lives. I really dunno, these are just my opinion. :))
and to those who left a comment on my "What if" post...thanks for sharing your opinions too.