Thursday, October 29, 2009

52 Weeks Challenge: 2/52

Forever In Blue Jeans

My 2nd entry for the today's 52 weeks challenge :)

This was taken today after eating dinner :)

picture..picture before going to sleep :)
doesn't seem obvious that my son is not feeling well then.
I hope everything will be fine tomorrow.

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Happy Thursday!!!

worried. . .

Gotta rush my son to the hospital this morning due to severe stomachache. Lab test we're given to him and in his urinalysis test it shows that he has an above normal rbc level but his pedia told me that we will observe first my son before giving any medicines. She scheduled us tomorrow for another urinalysis test. As of the moment my son is Ok but his having a slight fever and no more abdominal pains. Hope everything will be fine for i'm kinda worried.

the three beautiful mommas. . .

One Tuesday evening these three beautiful mommies have nothing to do, so they decided to go for a malling. And since they don't have enough budget for a shopping spree (wow! bonga galore) they opted to window shop instead. lolz! And after a tiring window shopping experience they treat themselves with a sumptuous dinner at an affordable resto. and here's some of their pictures:

. . .because of a friend, problem diminish, joy seem magnified, and the very-dailiness of life is colored with a kind of magic. :))

-benjamin norris-

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

missing much . . .

It’s been a week now since I admitted my sony digicam to sony service center but until now I haven’t heard from them yet. Waaaaaaaaa….i missed my digicam so much. My digicam is like my love of my life…huhuhu…. 2 activities have passed and I haven’t documented it. And tomorrow will be my sister’s graduation, how can I take photos on that once in a lifetime event. Hayyyyyyy….if only someone will give me a new digicam I will be very grateful and I will love that person dearly. Lolz… well, just a hopeful thinking then. :) hope dear Santa can read this post of mine so that he will include my name in his list too. Hahaha . . . another hopeful thinking….it’s so depressing for a photo addict like me, not having digicam right now. *sigh*

Sony service center please fix my digicam soon for I miss it already… :(

WFW : 1 Timothy 1:7

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Straight from the Heart

You’ve hurt me so badly
That it leads me to question myself WHY?
Yeah…I keep asking myself why?
My mind can’t grasp why I have to suffer a lot with you
What have I done wrong?
I’ve been with you through ups and down in life
Never did I leave you behind
Never did I betrayed you
But in exchange what I’ve got from you were all
Heartaches, betrayals and dishonesty. . .

Why? Who am I in your life?
What’s my role in your life?
What do you think of me?
Thinking of you? LOLZ!
Insensitive, numb, dull or with no feelings at all?
That each time you’ll stab me a million times
I won’t react or get hurt at all?

I thought that after all that has happened
You’ll transform into a BETTER PERSON
But you weren’t
Instead you made another mistake
How many times will you commit a mistake before you’ll transform into a better you?
Or maybe you will never change at all…

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

on waste management . . .

Waste management is really a big problem that needs to be taken care of and be solved. Even garbage disposal services had a hard time finding solutions on it. Good enough wastedge dot com develops its latest technology software called Waste Management Software . The software will help waste management services to manage fast and organize collections and disposals of garbage around the community. And this software is already available and so affordable. Surely this will be the answer to the entire waste industry problem these days.

Sunday, October 25, 2009

October 24 - A Day to Remember

Yup October 24 is indeed a special day and unforgettable day for me because it has so many events and celebrations that had happened.

First is I arrived home from our videoke night out at 2am and a little bit tipsy then. :) Second, I have to wake up at 6am for I have to attend the 3rd Mindanao Bloggers Summit at Pearlmont Inn which registration starts at 8am. Unfortunately I was very late and arrived at the venue at 11am...tsk..tsk..too bad, but still it was worth it, for i've got the chance to have a picture with the ever handsome Atty. Adel Tamano one of the guest speaker on that said event. I also had a chance to witness for the very first time the awarding of the 2009 Blog Awards Night but did not finish the said ceremony for I have to be home by 7 pm because my son wants to celebrate his papa's bday. So I have to rushed to Red Ribbon to buy a birthday cake. When I arrived home my son was then so excited to blow the candles on the cake and sing a happy birthday song for his papa. Well, whatta a thoughtful son for he did not forget to celebrate his papa's bday even his papa is a miles away from us. :)

'Twas really indeed a full packed day for me. After all the events and celebration I feel so stressed out and tired. lolz! But I did enjoy my day so much.

Anyways here's my pic with the ever handsome Atty. Tamano

kilig to the max ang mga beauties :)

Philippine Blog Awards Wall

my son remembering and celebrating his papa's bday

Last Friday the girls were having a videoke night out. And it was really an unforgettable night for we have so much fun, well its shows on our pictures.

Here's some of our pix . . .

@ the office

the girls @ vigo's videoke bar

the concert queen
mommy mars

the concert queen with its back up
singers and dancers

oooppsss. . . i thought this is just a girls night out:)
jepoy the thorn among the roses? :)

presenting mommy phebie
d dancing diva turn singing diva :)

i am beautiful and she's not. . . hahaha

ows? whats with the foot wears?
footogenics . . .

happy. . .

Saturday, October 24, 2009

3rd Mindanao Blogger Summit 2009

I’m at Pearlmont Inn right now attending the
3rd Mindanao Blogger Summit 2009.

I'll post some updates tonight on what take place during the said event. :))

Thursday, October 22, 2009

52 Weeks Challenge: 1st Entry 1/52

Forever In Blue Jeans

I was visiting my friend Shelo of Mi Mundo del Amor's blog and read her entry about this 52 Week Challenge hosted by Carin in Forever in Blue Jeans. I got interested and wanted to join the challenge so I headed over Forever in Blue Jeans Site. And the challenge is very simple, for every Thursdays you must post a picture of you and your child or your children for 52 Weeks.

And since me and my son loves to take pictures together almost every day I was encourage to join in this 52 Weeks Challenge.

Here’s my 1st entry for this Thursday :)

We were watching tv and my son got my cellphone and ask me to take pictures of us.

what's with that big eyes? :)

wacky pix. . .jonjon you were not looking at the cam

oh so sweet. . .:)

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Another Shoutout that Speaks Itself. . .

Another shout out that speaks itself :)

I was shock when somebody or a mysterious girl turned anonymous made a violent reaction or a very defensive comment on my post entitled "Reminiscing" Is that person OK? based on my recent visitor that person is from United Kingdom. I'm wondering why that person reacted that way. . . WHY? Did that person know whom I referring that song to? . . . hmmm. . . if you'll going to read all the comments, the person was so angry with what i wrote. Even told me to check on my self first? Ooppsss...wait! have that person check himself or herself before suggesting or instructing me to check myself first? And to that mysterious girl turn anonymous thanks for your concern and don't worry me for am very much fine. and please do stay calm for as if you're in rage. :)

My First Visitor from Macau

Congratulations! You just had your first visitor from Macau.

Thanks for the visit, do visit again. :)

Online Game

It’s 2 in the morning and yet I could not sleep, my mind is so preoccupied so I decided to play Algadon a free online RPG or a role playing game. Algadon is a role playing game which is set in the medieval land of Algadon. This game allows players to explore the land, battle monsters and other vicious beast and fight with other players too. Sounds so exciting right? And true enough, because I myself was immediately hooked up with the game. It is a fun role playing game. But before I forget you must register first before you can start playing this free online game. You will get a username and a password then after that you can start playing and be hooked up like me. What are you waiting for, register now.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

WFW - Matthew 6:34

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Reminiscing . . .

. . .if that third party never came along life is quite fine, but she came and everything has changed and it will never, never be the same again . . . it's all because of HER . . .

I Remember The Boy
-Joey Albert-

Today I heard them play the song again
An old familiar strain from way back when
Every note and every line
It`s always been a favorite song of mine

It used to haunt me so some years ago
Reminds me of a boy I used to know
And although the melody lives on
The memories and the boy are all but gone

And while the song still brings that certain glow
And the words still sing of love I know
It isn`t quite the way it was before
I remember the boy
But I don`t remember the feeling anymore

The promises we made seemed easier then
As if we knew our love would never end
But seasons change and time erases the tears
As quickly as the rivers disappear

So while the song still brings that certain glow
And the words still sing of love I know
It isn`t quite the way it was before
I remember the boy
But I don`t remember the feeling
I remember the boy
But I don`t remember the feeling anymore

on being unfaithful . .

Read and got this from someone's blog. :) I like the story and decided to repost it here in my blog. This story is good for married, unmarried and home wreckers.

When You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms

On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped in
front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the
car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and shy.
I was a strong and happy bridegroom.

This was the scene ten years ago.

The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid; I
went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were
steadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a
civil servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at
the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.

Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was more
likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.

Dew came into my life.

It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from
behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was
the apartment I bought for her.

Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her words
suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife said,
Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.

Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my
wife. But I couldn't help doing so.

I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture, O.K.?
I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, because
I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of
divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something
impossible to me.

However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No matter
how mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.

Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner.
I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we
watched TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing
Dew's body. This was the means of my entertainment.

One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce, what
will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. Apparently
she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I couldn't
imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.

When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all the
staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide something
while talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled
at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.

Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live
together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.

When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something to
tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt
in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let
her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly,
why? I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her
angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she
wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly
give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that
she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced
at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The woman
who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But
I could not take back what I had said.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to
see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce
which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.

Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her
writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I found
she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.

She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me,
but I was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the
month's time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was
simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she
didn't want him to see our marriage was broken.

She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do you
still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This
question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I nodded
and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I
have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when
we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from
the bedroom to the door every morning.

I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished to
end her marriage romantically.

I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and
thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the
result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me feel

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was
explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I
carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped
behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense
of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked
over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly,
Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat
upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I drove
to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I
realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a long
time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles on
her face.

On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being
demolished. Be careful when you pass there.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were
still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The
visualization of Dew became vague.

On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, where
she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I
nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about

I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She was
picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a few
but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have
grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she was
thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger. I
knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a sense
of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.

Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He said. To
him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part
of his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I
turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last
minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the
sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and
naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our
son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in your
arms until we are old.

I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life
lacked intimacy.

I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any
delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the
door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious.

She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no
fever. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I can
only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring
probably because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we
didn't love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her
into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until
I am old. So I have to say sorry to you.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed
the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.

When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife
which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I
smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old.

Watery Wednesday

L' Fisher Hotel's Swimming Pool
Bacolod City

I love this native couch
I guess this is made of rattan materials.

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